Discover the connection you crave.
Cultivating Erotic Intelligence for Mind, Body, and Spirit
Do you want more from your sex?
If so, you’re not alone.
I’m Jason King, a Certified Sexological Bodyworker and somatic sex coach based in Amsterdam. I support gay, bi, and queer men to have more fulfilling, satisfying, and pleasurable sex.
First, I applaud you for seeking to explore your sexuality in a deeper way. Opening up to one’s sexuality is an act of courage.
Sex is often considered to be ‘natural’. While sex is a natural act, good sex - that is, sex which is both pleasurable and fulfilling - is both an art and a collection of skills: interpersonal, communication, embodiment and building one’s capacity for pleasure, consent navigation, anatomical knowledge, and emotional intelligence. These skills can all be learned, practiced, and developed. Critically, all of these skills must be grounded in safety and self-love. I provide a safe container for you to explore your relationship with your body, to arrive at deeper self-acceptance and confidence.
Sex can be scary. We are laden with cultural taboos, shame, and bad information. Sex can also be transcendent - a space in which we feel incredibly alive. I’m here to support you in unlocking your aliveness.
What is Sexological Bodywork?
Also known as somatic sex education, sexological bodywork is a hands-on educational modality that supports clients to develop their relationship to their body and sexuality through embodied experiences.
Who I Work With
I work with people who have a sense of something they want to learn or explore in the realms of sexuality, intimacy, and embodiment. I work with individuals of all sexual orientations, gender identities, relationships and expressions. I seek to celebrate all bodies and their inherent dignity and worthiness.
How I Can Help
Some common challenges clients face that I can help with. If you have other challenges related to your sexuality, intimacy, or embodiment, contact me so we can discuss how I may be able to help.
I feel dissatisfied with my sex life
I’m seeking more intimacy or meaning from my sex
I’m stuck in a sexual pattern that doesn’t satisfy me anymore
I feel uncomfortable with my relationship to porn or masturbation
I feel uncomfortable with my relationship with Grindr or dating apps
I want to feel more relaxed during sex
I want to develop a more intimate and loving relationship with my body
I want to try bottoming (anal sex), but it’s painful or I’ve had negative experiences in the past
I feel shame around my sexuality
I want to develop my communication skills around sex and intimacy
I feel triggered when I have sex
I have anxiety or trauma around intimacy
I struggle to know and ask for what I want
I want to learn how to talk to my partner about sex, desires, and fantasies
I want to be less in my head or distracted during sex
I want to learn to accept and love my sexuality
I experience low pleasure or numbness in my genitals
I want to accept my body and/or gender more fully
I want to learn how to give and accept sensuality and touch
I’m bored with sex
I want to learn new ways to masturbate
I want to experience more and new types of pleasure
I want sex to be a spiritual experience
I want to own my sexiness and desirability
“I feel stuck.”
Perhaps you don’t feel something is wrong with your sex life, you just feel like something is missing or should be different. I can help you listen to your body’s intelligence to discern your desires and where you’d like to grow.
What Clients Are Saying
“After our work together, I feel equipped with tools to reflect and communicate from a place of deeper self-understanding, generosity, and joy.”
— Zac Smith
“Working with Jason was an important step in discovering my sexual patterns and addictions. With his help, I was able to start breaking free and be my authentic self in sex.”
— Jeremy M
Schedule A Call
Schedule a free 20-minute discovery call to discuss your intention and what you’d like to work on. I’ll share more about how I work, and answer any questions you may have.